Do You Feel Sexy?

Ladies, when was the last time you looked in the mirror and told yourself, "Damn, you're SEXY!" When was the last time your guy told you that? While you don't NEED validation from a guy, it's always great to hear, no? You smile when a random stranger winks at you, smiles at you, and, whether you admit or not, when you're walking past a guy, he stops, stares, and makes a flattering comment.

Has that attention waned more recently? If so, why? DO YOU FEEL SEXY? Guys can sense when your self confidence, your sass, your sexiness isn't at it's peak. Perhaps the simple stresses of life have taken their toll on you. You've got responsibilities-career, perhaps children, volunteer work, etc., and you've lost some of yourself over time. How do we get you back?

When you first met your guy, what was the state of your appearance? Were you a bit more conscientious about your makeup application? Did you wear heels rather than the flats you currently wear? Did you dress sexier? Did you have less(or no) grey back then? Was your weight more under control then? These questions(especially the one about weight) aren't meant to be cruel, or demeaning in any way; rather, it's simply a realistic survey to see where we can pay more attention, and regenerate some of that passion and attention in your sexual relationship. Guys are visually stimulated.

If you answered yes to any of the previous questions, would you consider re-implementing some of your original tactics? How about a light makeover? Perhaps try something to accentuate your sexy eyes, those hips, those LIPS! Maybe consider a sexier hairstyle, or buying a dress or skirt that's shorter or tighter than your usual wardrobe. And if you've gained a bit of weight, so what? There are many full figured ladies that are absolutely BEAUTIFUL, and other than their beauty, you know what makes them sexy? Their ATTITUDE, their SWAGGER, their CONFIDENCE! That's what makes us guys take notice, gets our testosterone flowing, gets us in the mood to be all over you. That IS what you wanted, right?

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